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情绪不健康的四个信号 • 如果你感到紧张
2022-03-11    青岛若水心里咨询有限公司
<p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">情绪不健康的四个信号</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <ul style="margin-top:0cm;" type="disc"> <li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">如果你感到紧张、怨恨、沮丧或不适,这表明您需要去调整自己的状态了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">寻找机会在工作、个人生活、健康和与自己的关系中保护您的精神和情感能量。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </li> </ul> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p> </o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">很多人表示他们的幸福感在过去一年中有所下降。很多人都知道自己的情绪健康很重要,但很难做到。一个很好的开始方法是从你的情绪反应中查看数据。如果你有四种感觉中的一种</span><span lang="EN-US">——</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">紧张、怨恨、沮丧或不适</span><span lang="EN-US">——</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">这表明你需要调整自己的状态。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">通过解决出现这</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">四种感觉</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">的情况,你可以为更多你想要的东西和更少你不想要的东西创造时间和空间。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US">1. </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">紧张</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">紧张是一种压力或紧张感,会导致持续的紧张、恐惧或分心。你认为某些事情取决于你的表现的结果。你觉得对某种情况负责。对于某些人来说,这可能是积极的。在压力下执行的能力是一种理想的</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/leadership" title="今日心理学着眼于领导力"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">领导</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">技能,因为它可以激发你的</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/attention" title="今日心理学着眼于注意力"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">注意力</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">或专注于一项任务。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">另一方面,未解决的紧张可能意味着您永远不会让自己保持静止、休息或充电,因为您觉得自己必须始终保持前进才能达到下一个基准(由他人设定或自我强加)。下次当你开始感觉到这种感觉出现时,问问自己:什么情况会引发恐惧感?我的身体试图向我展示我在哪里超载自己的</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/wisdom" title="今日心理学着眼于智慧"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">智慧</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">是什么?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US">2. </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">怨恨</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">在所有四种感觉中,这一种是您需要设定更好界限的最重要标志。怨恨是无声的</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/anger" title="今日心理学着眼于愤怒"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">愤怒</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">。这是一个信号,表明您生活中的重要规则、标准或期望已被其他人违反(甚至可能被您忽略)。每当您想到某种情况或互动时,它通常看起来像是一种长期的、持续的苦毒、愤慨或</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/jealousy" title="今日心理学着眼于嫉妒"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">嫉妒。</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">它还可能包括感觉不被欣赏或被低估。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">怨恨是一种选择,这意味着你可以放下旧伤,采取措施为自己挺身而出,纠正不平衡。但是,怨恨使我们几乎不可能表现出同理心或客观地处理情况。它可以增加自怜,而不是解决问题。如果你发现自己有这种感觉,问问自己:我认为我在哪里受到了不公平的对待?我怎样才能勇敢地澄清和表达我的期望?如果有的话,我需要努力放下什么?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US">3.</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">挫败感</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">沮丧是许多人的共同感受。这是因为无法改变或实现某事或您在追求中感到受阻或受阻而对他人或您自己感到不安、恼火或不悦。这是一个明确的信号,表明您当前的方法不再有效,因此是时候进行调整了。或者你正在做同样的事情并期待不同的结果。它还可能包括对你追求对你来说很重要的事情感到沮丧,但你的大脑相信你可以做一些更好的事情来实现你的目标。挫败感会导致你放弃并让自己接受低于你真正想要的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">当您开始感到沮丧时,请考虑:我可以控制什么?我怎样才能更灵活地使用我的方法?我今天可以改变哪些小想法或行为会开始产生影响?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US">4. </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">不适</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">不适是一种挥之不去的或低级的不安、急躁、</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/guilt" title="今日心理学着眼于内疚"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">内疚</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">,甚至是</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/embarrassment" title="今日心理学着眼于尴尬"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">尴尬</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">的感觉。它通常伴随着你的</span><span lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/intuition" title="今日心理学着眼于直觉"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;"><span lang="EN-US">直觉</span></span></a></span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">告诉你有些事情是不对的。当你感到不舒服时,这是一个信号,告诉你需要弄清楚你想要什么,然后朝着那个方向采取行动。轻微的间歇性不适可能表明您正在推动和挑战自己尝试新事物和实验,或者可以作为催化剂来改变您不满意的环境。但过多的这种不适会抑制增长。超越自己的极限是通往疲惫的必经之路。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;">当你意识到你有不舒服的感觉时,问问自己:我在哪里强迫自己做一些我不同意的事情?什么情况会消耗我的能量或让我感到不安?这将为你指明创造新规则和做出改变的机会,这样你就可以保护你的精神和情感能量,特别是在最难设定限制的领域:工作、个人生活、健康以及你与自己的关系。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p> </o:p></span> </p> <br />
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